Friday, August 23, 2013

Make My Saturday Sweet - Blog Hop #46

It's time again for another Make My Saturday Sweet blog hop. How can you make someone's Saturday sweet? By linking up your blog and visiting other bloggers who linked up before you! It's easy and fun.

I'm also linking up with two Friday blog hops and answering their writing prompts. Today's Finish the Sentence Friday is "I wasn't really myself when I..."

I wasn't really myself when I fell pregnant with Amanda, my fourth child. It's not that I didn't want more kids, but my three older kids had grown up to a large extent and I was enjoying having my life back. Not only was I emotionally not ready, but I also became physically ill with morning sickness. I lost 8 kilos during my pregnancy. My kids (and Hubby) rallied behind me and gave me lots of support. They were excited to be getting a new brother or sister.

When Amanda was born, she was the center of our family. We drew closer together and the kids learned how to help care for a little one. Their job was usually to take turns playing with her. This was a huge help. However, the first year was the hardest, as Amanda had terrible colic and couldn't sleep at all in the day. She slept at night, but not that well.

All my babies were born with colic. I don't know why I had to go through it four times around. My son's colic lasted till around 4 months, but the girls all had it for longer. Jessica had it the longest. She didn't settle until two weeks after turning two years old.

I always carried my babies around, because I knew they were uncomfortable and not crying for nothing. This put a huge strain on me every time. I suppose that's another reason why I dreaded having another kid, but Amanda has been the biggest blessing. She has thoroughly enriched our lives.

Amanda's foot prints made into a butterfly
Preschool Art 2013

Today's Friendship Friday's theme is "Back to School."

As many of you already know, we live in South Africa and our kids are on a different school system. Their school year begins in January and ends in December. Even their summer break, which is from Dec. - Jan. is not as long as in the States. I think that makes getting back into the swing of things not so hard, as there isn't such a big gap from the year end until the new school year begins.

My kids are now in their third school term. Jeremiah is in the 11th grade, Jessica in the 9th, Samantha in the 7th, and Amanda is in preschool. She will begin grade R (grade K) in January and is now preparing for that. Even though there is no perfect school system, all my kids are happy at their schools. We're really blessed.

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sometines the things we don't expect are the greatest blessings...what a wonderful tribute to your daughter. All yoru kids at colic....oh my...I can't even imagine.
Amanda is such an adorable little girl! You are truly blessed Christina. My best wishes to your children as they pursue their school work. Thanks for hosting and have a wonderful weekend.
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I, too, had a colicky baby in my first and could so relate to what you were saying about colic. It was quite miserable to have my first baby come home with colic and Emma had it effect her nights. She would want to sleep all day and be up crying all night. And as for a baby shock, Lily (my second) was a bit of that. Because having Emma still only be 7 1/2 months old when I first found out I was pregnant again and still not really 100% settled from the colic (not sleeping through the night), trust me I was definitely a bit nervous. Not that when that wore off I was just slightly excited, but my initial reaction was definitely shock and needed time to process. So, I couldn't definitely relate to your post and seriously thank you for sharing, because it is really nice to know that it wasn't just me that went through some of this stuff.
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Yesterday I decided that if I wanted to take a holiday for the rest of my life, that I could, because I had earned it. So I watched TV and asked Samantha to put her little sister to bed. :) I think we moms need to cut ourselves some slack and take a break when we can. I wish you a restful week ahead!
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I was in the same boat with my 5th child. Going back to diapers and hauling baby gear and getting no sleep did not sound appealing, but the blessings he brought to our family far outweighed the negatives. I think my favorite part is seeing the way the older kids adore their younger brothers. (We had a 6th soon after the 5th.)

With your different school system, do you get any other breaks, or is school basically year-round? More than 180 days like it is here in the states?
This was a great post! Thanks for sharing a view of motherhood and babies that is so true and not often admitted - which makes so many moms feel guilty about their attitude when they are dealing with very real and trying circumstances. That's why babies are so cute - so you can manage to put up with the difficulties!
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Wow! You know the colic was bad when you specifically remember it to have lasted 2 years AND 2 weeks. No rounding it off to just 2 years. :( My parents got off easy - according to the nursing staff, I was the cutest and LOUDEST baby in the nursery, but when my parents got me home, I was sooooooooo quiet, they had to keep holding a mirror up to my face to make sure I was still breathing lol.
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Babies are truly a blessing but also very tiring! I am very thankful to not have babies in diapers right now :) Thanks for sharing your story, I enjoyed reading it...have a sweet Saturday!
Aw, I love that Amanda's been such a blessing and I can certainly understand not wanting to be pregnant again after three! Thanks for linking up with us!
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