Friday, June 20, 2014

School isn't Everything and Weekend Linky

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Make My Saturday Sweet #87!


School Isn't Everything



My three teenagers, Jeremiah (age 17), Jessica (age 16) and Samantha (age 13) all do well at school. They are also strong readers.

We usually don't have to push the two oldest kids to focus on school, especially not Jessica. In fact, when she was in grade 6, I told her teacher that I thought she was working too hard and sometimes my husband and I were having to tell her to go to bed and leave the homework or project unfinished. I don't think the teacher was impressed with my stance. But Jessica wasn't only spending her days at school and at home doing homework. She was also spending hours of training in rhythmic gymnastics. She made it to the South African finals twice. In grade 8, she switched to contemporary dance.

Jessica 2012

Jeremiah used to do a variety of sports and school wasn't his main focus. As long as he got decent grades and lived a balanced life, we were happy. He's been having grade A shoulder pain for about a year-and-a-half now and so the sports have fallen away. He's had X-rays and an MRI, but it was advised that operating might cause more trouble. Now he puts a lot of focus on his school work and his grades have improved considerably.

Jeremiah and Amanda 2011

Samantha is smart, but school work does not drive her like it does her big sister. She loves having fun. Sometimes she needs encouragement from us to buckle down. Her form of sport has been ballet. She's been doing it on-and-off for a few years. Jessica began last year taking ballet with her sister to increase her dance skills. It's been a good bonding point for them.

Jessica - Rhythmic Gymnastics
and Samantha - Ballet 2008

Amanda has the nicest life out of all of them. She is still in Kindergarten (we're in the middle of the school year here) and so there isn't copious amounts of homework for her. She is also taking tennis and introductory gymnastics. Sometimes we organize a play date at our house with one of her friends.

Amanda - Tennis 2014

Besides school and sports, the kids need to have fun and to socialize. It's all about leading a balanced life. With school demanding so much from kids, it's sometimes hard to find that balance. Sure, there will be days when the amount of school work far outweighs any other activity, but that must not be the norm. You see, school isn't everything.

Amanda's Art - Girl Playing Golf 2014

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I completely agree that school isn't everything and here in the US the latest called Common Core Curriculum is just crazy at what they expect kids at certain ages and levels to be able to do. Trust me I will be sharing more soon on my blog about this. but still I agree kids need outside activities and socialization, too.
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1 reply · active 563 weeks ago
The Common Core topic is what sparked this post. If we move to the States, we'll have to adjust to it too. Looking forward to reading your thoughts on the subject. Enjoy your summer break with the kids!
My recent post School isn't Everything and Weekend Linky
Tina, another thing we have in common! My youngest is talented in many areas, yet does't have the drive the older ones do!

I agree that our kids need to be able to have balance in their lives. Electronics seem to take over these days. I love when my kids head out in the yard and make swords out of sticks. Okay, well, they're a tad past that age. But still.

Have a great weekend!
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1 reply · active 563 weeks ago
Thanks, Mary! Yes, my kids also enjoy computer games, except for Jessica. Her favorite ways to relax is by texting her friends and reading books and this birthday she got a Kindle from her South African grandparents, so all her reading is done on that now.
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I agree, school is good, but the kids need time for other activities to complete their lives!! Thank you for join me on Oh My Heartsie Girl this weekend!!
Enjoy your day!!
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Cute kids! I set up to follow you on Facebook. Good post on schooling. Thanks again for visiting my blog. I hope one day we can travel to Africa. Have a great weekend!
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My youngest now 13 heads off to High School next year. With my eldest about to head into year 11 and Miss 14 year 10. The homework is incredible. I honestly don't remember it being that hard and having so much when I was at school. Perhaps I've blocked it out.

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Wow! I love the teen years. I try to tell my kids not to try and do everything perfectly when it comes to school work, because it's not humanly possible. Congrats on the amount of page views you're getting! I see that your winner is for a blog comment. Is there still going to be a winner for the best post of June? I joined that link party. Have a great weekend!
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I had a few giveaways going this month. The linkup giveaway you mention is over on my 2nd blog Agent Mystery Case. The winner was announced today and the next linkup is now open for July.
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